In this deeply emotional episode, former Army Major Matt Childers sits down with Joe Adams to open up about the battles most veterans never talk about — losing identity after service, the pain of divorce, fatherhood challenges, rebuilding emotional skills, and rediscovering faith.

From deployments in Iraq & Afghanistan to struggling as a single father, Matt shares the raw truth behind military life after the uniform comes off — the communication struggles, family tension, loneliness, healing journey, and learning how to feel and lead emotionally after decades of being trainednot to.

This episode is a reminder that some of the hardest wars are fought at home — and that growth, vulnerability, and love require strength far beyond the battlefield.

If you’re a veteran, spouse, father, or someone trying to repair family relationships while becoming the person you wish you were — this conversation is for you.

📌 Topics Covered

• Army life & deployments (Iraq & Afghanistan)

• Transitioning out of the military

• Fatherhood struggles & repairing relationships

• Divorce, identity crisis, & emotional isolation

• Learning to communicate & feel again

• Faith, humility, and healing

🙏 If you’re struggling, you’re not alone.

Healing takes courage. Asking for help is strength.

00:00 Introduction and Emotional Struggles

01:01 Welcome to the Relentless Pursuit Podcast

01:34 Introducing Today's Guest: Matt Childers

02:51 Life Changes and New Beginnings

05:37 The Importance of Brotherhood and Friendship

08:52 Matt's Military Background and West Point Experience

09:31 Childhood and Family Influences

10:22 Sports and Leadership Development

18:31 West Point Challenges and Football Journey

29:05 Finding Home with Jan Adams

30:16 Reflecting on Childhood and Communication

32:59 Military Beginnings: West Point to Alaska

35:27 Deployment Experiences and Leadership

36:49 Returning to West Point and Admissions Role

49:07 Advising Afghan Battalion Commanders

01:03:04 Deployment Challenges and Family Strain

01:04:37 Career Setbacks and Promotions

01:07:29 Returning Home and Family Dynamics

01:14:37 Divorce and Single Fatherhood

01:17:11 Struggles with Communication and Parenting

01:19:56 Rebuilding Relationships and Seeking Help

01:32:57 The Importance of Communication and Support

01:37:48 Navigating Emotional Expression

01:40:19 Transitioning from Military to Civilian Life

01:42:11 Building a Team and Leadership

01:43:51 The Importance of Safe Spaces in Relationships

02:03:23 Reconnecting with Faith

02:09:09 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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